What is recovery?

recovery article

I believe we’re all born full of complete self-love, self–esteem and self-confidence. To my mind, it’s just how humans are made. But then things happen – most frequently when we are growing up – that break, shatter or crack our wholeness. This is why people end up with low on no self-love, self-esteem and self-confidence.…

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Phenomenal power of positive thinking

Wellbeing Positive Thinking

We should never underestimate the immense power of our thoughts… Last month I was injured playing football. I couldn’t put my foot down and an X-ray at the hospital showed the doctor I had a fractured ankle. A week later I had another X-ray and a different doctor said it still looked fractured. But a…

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Can someone get addicted to exercise?

Exercise addiction

We are all encouraged to exercise – and with sound reason as it’s so good for us. But do some people take it too far and develop an exercise addiction that’s damaging for themselves and to those around them too? It is believed that half of adults have one or more chronic diseases that are…

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Why meditation & yoga is so essential for us in every way

Yoga meditation for mental health spiritual physical wellbeing coach

Yoga and meditation is traditionally seen in the West as something only “spiritual types” do. But it could in fact be that it’s a basic human need for not only spiritual, emotional and mental wellbeing – but physically its benefits are extraordinary too. Meditation reduces anxiety, depression, stress and actually enhances wellbeing in every way.…

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Why music & singing is so good for us

Why music & singing is so good for us mental health Singing Wellbeing Soltalk

There’s not an obvious connection between a noisy football crowd and a village church congregation. But there is of course the similarity between them of one thing: singing. One might be raucous chanting and the other a gentle hymn, but the feeling given to those singing as well as anyone listening in both cases is…

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How to find your true self

Finding true self

So many people live their life not being true to themselves. The real problem is that a great many people never actually know their true self. Shakespeare famously wrote: “To thine own self be true.” We all need to be our true self for real happiness. It is what everyone is really yearning for –…

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“It’s our spirit that tells us if we’re happy or sad.”

mental health recovery podcast

My chat with lovely Hannah Charlotte for her wonderfully insightful podcast. We covered loads – recovery, mental health problems, the Twelve Steps, Hero’s Journey, God, Love, non-love, Carl Jung, author Matt Haig, Dr Gabor Maté, addiction, alcoholism, my book 12 Steps To 1 Hero, plus clubbing/raving in the late 1980s and throughout the 1990s… https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/jumping-through-hoops-with-hannah-charlotte/id1329266713

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Why being grateful is so important to feeling great

Gratitude recovery

When people ask me for help, one of the first things I advise them to do is think about things they have to be grateful for in life. This is because such as depression, stress and anxiety cannot coexist alongside gratitude. Gratitude always shoves away depression and anxiety, in the same way that you cannot…

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